7 Things Women Want (Part 5): Security

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This is a continuation of the series, READ:
Part 1: Acknowledgment
Part 2: Affirmation
Part 3: Attention
Part 4: Affection

PART 5: SECURITY
Every woman and I mean every single woman wants security. Security can be subdivided into 3 segments.
A. Financial Security.
B. Emotional Security.
C. Physical Security.
A woman desires a financial secure relationship, she also wants an emotionally secure relationship and she craves for a physical secure relationship.

A. Physical Security: Have you ever wondered why ladies like tall guys or well built guys? Have you ever wondered why ladies are not attracted to short guys or guys they are taller than? In most cases, ladies like tall and well built guys because there is a feeling of security they feel when with them. They feel secure around them. They feel the tall or well built guy can protect them when and if the need arises. The irony is some tall or well built guys are cowards and will run faster than you if they smell danger while some short guys will kill for their lady. As long as you can stand up to anybody in defense of your woman, she will feel physical secure around you.

B. Emotional Security: A woman wants to be certain that she is the only woman in your life. A woman wants to be sure that she has a future with you. A woman wants to be certain she is not wasting her time in a relationship. A woman wants to know you will be there for her through thick and thin. If you have to hide your phone or password your phone when she is with you means there is something wrong somewhere. If you have to go out to answer certain calls means there is something wrong somewhere. Remind her of her importance in your life and do that as often as you can.

C. Financial Security: Last but definitely the most important to some ladies is financial security. A woman wants to be sure that you can take good care of her. That you can take care of your family. In most cases, even if the money is not showing now, she wants to be sure you have the desire, the dream, the zeal, the aspiration to be financially stable and in turn take good care of her.

Continue–} Part 6: Communication Part 7: Care

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