The Woman – A Man’s Multiplier: The Article Every Girl Must Read (Part 3)


When God made man all those years ago, He realized that man could not survive on Earth alone so He created woman from the rib of man to HELP man.To make a woman’s task much easier, God implanted in woman the nurturing genes lacking in man. Below are a few of them:

1. Sperm to Baby: The most beautiful aspect of a woman’s gift is the ability to nurture a child in her womb. That’s the most significant of the anatomy of a woman that stands her out from a man. A man’s job is to give the sperm to the woman and she does the rest. She has the egg that the sperms fertilize, she has the womb where the embryo is formed and the baby grows. She has the birth canal where the baby comes out from after 9 months. She has the breasts to feed the baby. No woman, no child.

Mother and daughter (1-3) smiling, close-up

Mother and daughter (1-3) smiling, close-up

2. Suspicion to Fact: One of the most significant gifts God deposited in a woman is the gift of intuition. Intuition is the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning. It’s that inner feeling, that prevailing thought that tells you something isn’t right before any signs even appear. It’s a magical force that prevails in women way before men can catch on.
A woman can sense something is amiss or something just isn’t right about a business deal or someone way before a man can. A smart man brings his wife into his business dealings to utilize this special gift for his profiting.


3. House to Home: Women have a knack of transforming a house to a home. A house is a building whereas a home is a body. A woman transforms a man from a bachelor to a groom, from a groom to a husband, from a husband to a father, from a father to a dad. When a man gives a woman a house, she transforms it into a home.


4. Money to Food: The Bible made a specific statement that binds food and money together, which says “no food for a lazy man”. Therefore for a man to eat, he needs to work. After working, he brings the proceeds to his wife who transforms the hard cash to a delicious meal for consumption. There is a significance of a woman cooking for her husband. No woman should ever be too busy to cook for her husband or delegate the responsibility to a house help or a cook. Feeding a man is more spiritual than we think.


5. Love to Respect: While advising men and women in Ephesians about marriage, Paul said in Ephesians 5:22-33 “women respect your husbands and men love your wives”. Significantly, verse 33 depicts the arrangement which says “man love your wife as you love yourself AND wife respect your husband”. This means that a man is mandated to love his wife to get her respect. Love is the seed while respect is the harvest. Most men demand respect whereas they have failed to sow love. Quote me anywhere, its only a witch that would disrespect a man that loves her like he loves himself. Love your wife and you will get her respect effortlessly.


6. Attention to Loyalty: Women are like babies, give them attention and you will receive loyalty in return. Deprive them of attention and you will get a disgruntled, nagging, unhappy and in many cases a fornicating wife. One of the biggest reasons for a woman cheating in her marriage is when her husband deprives her of the attention she so dearly craves. Attention could be emotional, physical, psychological and even sexual. No man should ever be too busy for his wife. Work is not an excuse.


7. Foreplay to Good sex: A woman’s sexual anatomy is like an engine that needs lubrication to function properly. Sexually a man just needs to think of sex to be in the mood for sex. A woman on the other hands doesn’t work that way. She needs to be coerced slowly into the mood for sex through foreplay. The problem is men don’t have the patience. Foreplay could include washing the dishes for her. Helping her around the house. Preparing a meal for her. Giving her a massage. Watching her favorite show with her. A man who dedicates time for foreplay with his wife is bound to have a very satisfactory sex life with her.



8. Proper Care to Stunning Looks: Are you aware that no woman is ugly? Because it all depends on the care she is given. Take a village girl to a loving and caring man and watch him transform her to a queen. He cleans her up from head to toe (hair extensions, makeup, nails, eyebrows etc), dresses her up with expensive dresses and places her in a tinted AC blowing Range Rover Sport. Can that kind of woman be ugly?”
Simply put, a man that wants to see the beauty in his woman should do his part: take care of her adequately.


9. Ideas to Reality: A woman is like a business idea oven which only smart men are aware of and utilize. A man comes to his wife with a business idea, she helps him refine it, she prays with him over it, she uses her intuition (God given) to sieve through the idea, she adds her own and in no time, that idea becomes a full blown business. A wife is a man’s biggest business partner/adviser.


10. Child to Adult: When a child is born, he or she is born empty. Then the mother begins the task of building her baby into a worthy human being. She breastfeeds the child, instills discipline into the child, inculcates morale into the child,teaches the child her language, builds the child’s spiritual capacity. A child usually becomes a reflection of his/her upbringing in the hands of his/her parents especially the mother.
The man prepares a worthy platform, conducive home and available resources for the upbringing of his children, the woman is usually the major stakeholder in the raising of a child. If the first woman (mother) fails, it makes the life of the second woman (wife) harder in the future.


The Creation of Woman: The Article Every Girl Must Read (Part 2)


Photo credit: Michel Angelo

The following conversation *hopefully* occurred between God and the angels during the creation of the man in Genesis 1 and 2.

God: So my people, we are almost done with creation but I have this gut feeling that something is still missing.

Angel Michael: Father, you have done a god job in my book.

Angel Gabriel: Father, I agree with Mike, all You have created is wonderful and I am still in awe.

God: Thank you but I still feel something is missing.

Angel Thomas: Father may I speak?

God: Go on Tom.

Angel Thomas: Let’s take stock of what has been created so we know the next step to take.
Father, on the first day, You made light out of darkness and called the light day and darkness night.
On the second day, You created the Heaven while on the third day you divided the land from the seas.
On the fourth day, You created the sun, the moon and the stars.
On the fifth day, You created the birds of the sky and the creatures in the sea.
Today alone, You have made the beast of the earth and every animal.
Father, in my honest opinion, You have done a magnificent job. I think it’s time You rest (Genesis 1: 1-25)

God: Well, everything I have created is good (Genesis 1:25c) but something is missing. You know what?

The Angels: What father?

God: Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping animal that creepeth upon the earth.

The Angels: Yes boss. Good idea.

God: Angel Gabriel, gather the other angels to go to the store house and get the wheel burrows and shovels and get me sand from the back of the barn.

Angel Gabriel: Consider it done Father.

*Angel Gabriel mobilizes the angels and tons of sand and water are brought for God to form man.

*God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul*


Photo credit: Edwin Lester

God: This man can’t just be idle doing nothing. Let’s give him a job.

*And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden, to dress it, and to keep it*

Angel Gabriel: Father, although Adam is doing his job faithfully but he looks very lonely and uncoordinated. If you live him alone, in no time he will think he is an animal and start behaving like them.

God: Ehmmmmmmmmmm. You are very right on that. It is not good that the man should be alone: I will make him a help meet for him. Someone that will help him become better. Someone that will refine him from the raw material he is to the finished product I want him to be. Someone that will empower him. Someone that will guide and pray for him. Someone weaker physically but stronger emotionally.

Angel Gabriel: All these characteristics for one person. Can one person take all these responsibilities?

God: Of course. I will make her as soft as a pillow but so strong mentally that she can handle a thousand heartbreaks and not crack. She will be made more beautiful, more precious, more powerful than the man.

Angel Gabriel: Okay Sir. Let me go and inform the other angels that we need a bigger load of sand to make this special being You have spoken of.

God: Gabby please come back. We are not going to be using sand to form this special being. She’s too special for sand to do her justice. I am going to use the man’s rib to create her.

Angel Gabriel: But God, how can we use a rib to create this being you have spoken so highly of? Rib from who?

God: Adam of course. You remember when we created him, we put ribs around his body to protect the vital organs like his heart, lungs and liver from external damage. So we will take one of those ribs and create this special being. I could have used any bone to create her but only the rib of Adam will be good enough to form her.

*And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept; and  took one of his ribs and He made woman*


Photo credit: Edwin Lester

Angel Michael: Oh my God!!!!

God: Why are you calling me?

Angel Michael: Sorry Father. That’s an exclamation. I am only admiring this special creation of yours.

God: You like her?

Angel Gabriel: She’s beautiful

Angel Michael: She’s stunning

Angel Edafe: She make sense die!!

Angel Kairos: She’s baaaaaad!!!!!!!

God: Enough with the compliments. She’s beautiful on the outside but even more beautiful is what I am going to deposit inside her.
I will make her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I will give her inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from men and the outside World.
I will give her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I will give her the sensitivity to love under all circumstances, even when her partner is an asshole.
I will give her the strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I will give her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
I will give her a tear to shed, it’s hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.
The beauty of this being is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, the size of her breasts or bottom or the way she does her makeup or how she combs her hair. The beauty of this woman is in the resolve I have deposited in her. She’s never be compared to a man. It’s an insult to all my hard work. Am I understood?

The Angels: YES SIR.

God: Make sure you protect her even more than you protect the man. Am I understood?

The Angels: YES SIR.

God: Now let’s wake Adam and see what he says about this specially created human being.

*God wakes Adam up from the deep sleep. Adam looks around, sees her and says*

Adam: This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man.


Photo credit: Jehovah Witness

Reference: Why Women Cry? by Unknown from

Children, Parents and Sex Education


I was about heading to boarding school at about 11 years old when my mother called me into her room for a talk. I had no idea what she had in mind until she opened her mouth.
I can’t remember all she said but one sentence stuck “you are a man now, do not get a girl pregnant”.
She didn’t seem too comfortable with the topic and the conversation was over faster than it started.

I was a kid who knew nothing about the female anatomy, knew nothing about sexual intercourse, knew nothing about pregnancy but was given an ultimatum “do not get a girl pregnant?” How do I even get a girl pregnant? I didn’t know but was never told.

My dad? The word ‘sex’ seems like a forbidden word because I have never heard him utter any sentence with ‘sex’ embedded in it.

All I know about sex, I had to learn from external sources. I was fortunate to keep my virginity till I was done with my teenage years but that was out of lack of opportunity not intentional.

So my question is, when is it really okay to discuss sex with children? Should parents leave it up to teachers in school? Or friends in the neighborhood?


Let’s take a look Ebun’s story.

Little Ebun Joseph (pseudonym) was given a rude introduction into the meaning of sex in the most unimaginable way. And it stemmed from what was supposed to be a seemingly harmless question.

“Daddy, what is sex?” The little girl asked one day after school.

The father, who is a clergy, hushed her up gently but firmly. He told her she was not supposed to mention such a word in the house again. The inquisitive little girl sulked up to her mother and asked the same question. She got a similar response.

The next day, still unsatisfied by the answers given by her parents, Ebun asked her mother’s driver as he drove her to school.

“Uncle, what is sex?”

In a moment of surprise, the driver’s mood was twisted by morbid fascination. He warned her not to tell her parents what he was about to teach her. The little girl innocently agreed. He decided to ‘show’ her the meaning. He raped her. She was just six years old at the time. The little girl was too scared to tell her parents. She went through that ordeal until she was 15, without the knowledge of her parents.


Experts on sex matters have warned about the dangers of parents shying away from discussing sex with their children.

One of them is a child sexuality educator and relationship expert, Mr. Praise Fowowe. He said there was danger in not empowering children about sex education during their impressionable years.

“This is because the strength of a sex predator is the ignorance of a child. But once the child is adequately equipped with the right, appropriate knowledge about sex, it would then be impossible for a predator to molest that child. Sex education, just like charity, should start from the home,” Fowowe said.

According to Science Daily, sex education “is a broad term used to describe education about human sexual anatomy, sexual reproduction, sexual intercourse, and other aspects of human sexual behaviour.”

Fowowe further explained that sex education for children must consider the well-being of a child. “This includes letting them aware of their body parts, and how they respond and react to things about their bodies,” he said.

Also, a counselling and developmental psychologist at the Department of Counselling and Human Development Studies, University of Ibadan, Oyo State, Prof. Ajibola Falaye, advised parents to introduce sex education to children when they started to ask curious questions about their bodies and the making of babies.

She stated, ‘‘From psychology, we know that some form of basic sex education should begin from between the ages of three to six. Some children start having immature sex feelings at a young age. When children ask questions about anatomical differences in gender, parents should be able to explain to them with straightforward answers, and not muddled interpretation.

“You don’t have to give too many details to children about sex. It should be said in a way that children can understand and appreciate.”


However, sex education remains a controversial issue, especially in this clime where some, for religious leanings and fears, believe that children, at whatever age, should not be taught about sex or anything remotely related to it.

A parenting counsellor and children life coach, Mr. Kingsley Obom-Egbulem, said some people have kicked against teaching children about the issues related to sex because of the word ‘sex.’

He said, “Some people have been kicking against sex education because they believe that when one uses the word sex, one is actually talking about sexual intercourse and not just the anatomy. But when it comes to children, I believe parents should start telling their children about their private body parts as from the age of one or two. This would help the child to understand his or her body as he or she grows up.”

Obom-Egbulem likened such basic sex education to ‘arming children against abuse.”

He stated, “Sexual abuse is a real concern at that level. We should draw a line between sex education and sexual intercourse. Parents should help their children to become familiar and comfortable with their body parts.

For child rights activist, Mrs. Helen Oshikoya, “Children should be made to be aware of the basics about their body parts. Also, one can inform them that if they are touched inappropriately or gestures of sexual contents are made to them, they should report such to their parents.”

Besides, Fowowe added that sex education should begin at different stages.

He explained further: “There is what is called age appropriation sexual education, The first stage can start when the child is between 18 months and three years, the next stage is from ages three to five; then five to eight, eight to 12, and from 13 to 18. At these different stages, the children are taught different basics about sex and values according to the age and maturity.’’

He also said, “The challenge is that when parents hear of sexual education, they think it is connotes teaching them about penetration sex. That is not even involved until the child is old enough, at about 13 or 14. From the age of three for example, the child needs to be taught about the body parts, and the proper names and differences between private and public body parts and how to handle the parts. For the younger ages, story-telling, role plays and songs are good methods to use in teaching them basic sex education. From five years upwards, the format changes, which includes, ‘fire on the mountain’ – what children should avoid, and so on.”

Falaye said parents should take it as a responsibility to teach their children basic sex education, and not leave it to others to teach them. She noted that the lack of sex education and awareness of the issue had led to several problems plaguing children and society.

She said, “Experimentation in adolescence and peer influence causes a lot of misguided sexual actions. That’s why there should be mother-daughter, father-son communication on sex education, and let them know the right information. Research has shown that when there is good mother-daughter communication on sex, the girl is wholesome as far as sex behaviour is concerned. It is the same with the father-son relationship.”

On her part, Founder, Media Concern Initiative, Princess Olufemi-Kayode, agreed with Falaye, adding that the best time to teach sex education should be immediately the child started inquiring about it.

She said, ‘‘It is the best time to start teaching one’s child about basic sex education also called sexuality or life skill education, just like one tells children that they should stay away from fire and the reasons why; because today’s children are more advanced and their curiosity is more heightened.”

Olufemi-Kayode noted that parents should also get some needed education to give their kids better education on issues of sex.

Fowowe also noted that it was needful for parents to begin giving their children sex education at an early age because of the rate of sexual exposure from outside sources, including television, Internet and from peers.

Also speaking, a parent, Mr. John Adewuyi, said it was proper to teach children sex education at early ages in order for them to be empowered sexually as they advance in age. “This includes teaching them about their body parts and why daddy is different from mummy,”he said.

It’s high time parents and guardians take the bull by the horn and educated their children and wards to stop the growing trend of paedophiles violating   these little ones.

If you are too shy to discuss sex with your children, someone out there won’t be too shy to teach them a thing or two about sex.

Be guided.

sex ed take 4

Edited from an article by ARUKAINO UMUKORO for

Manner of Approach: The Love Story of Rachael and Ken


Not Rachael and Kennedy

It was Ken’s birthday and his beautiful wife Rachael was planning a surprise visit to his office.

She had an Arsenal cake baked for him and packaged some bottles of drinks, snacks and even a cooler filled with hot spicy goat meat peppersoup for his colleagues at the office.

It was his 40th birthday and she was even more excited than he was about celebrating it. She stepped into his office complex and exchanged pleasantries with everyone she saw.

“Madam, you are looking very beautiful. Oga is really taking good care of you”, the Secretary mustered with a big smile as Mrs Rachael proceeded to opening her husband’s door.
” Thank you Uche”, she replied as she opened her husband’s office door singing

“Happpppppy Birth……….”

Then she saw a scene that swept her off her feet. Almost literally. And I don’t mean that in a good way.


Her Reaction (Option 1):
She was dumbfounded to find her husband hugging a seductively dressed lady in his office. She gently dropped his surprise cake on the desk and started screaming…..
“Kennedy what is going on here?”
“Who is this brat?”
“So I came to surprise you on your birthday and this is what I get?”

As Ken was composing himself to answer her flurry of questions, he gestured for Jolomi to leave the office but Madam Rachael blocked her from leaving.
“Now you are telling her to leave? She must stay here while you explain yourself”
“Who is this brat, I repeat”.

Long story short, Madam Jolomi left the office offended and Ken was left with a ruined birthday. He got home to  a calm wife who had cried herself to sleep. He woke up the next day and explained what really happened to her and she felt so ashamed of herself for jumping into conclusions so aggressively.


Her Reaction (Option 2):
She was dumbfounded to find her husband hugging a seductively dressed lady in his office. But as the calm composed lady she was, she acted like nothing happened.
She continued singing “Happy Birthday to you” while the whole office joined in. By then Jolomi had gathered herself, left the office faster than she came in.

His wife gave the food stuff to the Secretary to share among the staff, kissed her husband, prayed for him and left him to get on with work.

Ken got home and met his wife waiting for him with his meal already prepared and steaming hot.
He knew his wife saw what happened at the office and knew he had to explain himself sooner rather than later.

As he finished his meal, showered and was preparing to explain himself to his wife.

Rachael beat him to it.
She said, “Darling there is something that happened in the office today that hurt me”.
He replied ” Yes baby, that’s what I wanted to talk…….”
“Please let me finish”, she cut in.
“I came to surprise you at the office and met you in an embrace with a scantily dressed girl. Why would you do such a thing? Why would you hurt me in such a way? I didn’t react then because I respect you and I didn’t want to cause a scene at the office. Please explain yourself.”

Then Ken proceeded to explaining what happened at the office.


What really transpired at the office —————————>

It was Ken’s birthday alright but he wasn’t in the birthday mood. He just got wind of news that the company was downsizing and he had to personally lay off a few of the staff under his supervision. He knew he had to celebrate his birthday later at home with his wife and three kids. But for now, his birthday was the last thing on his mind. He was tensed.

He finally almost reluctantly selected 10 of the staff that were to be layed off.
He called them into his office one after the other, after a few words of encouragement handed them their letter of termination and wished them well.

Then in stepped Jolomi, the hot busty and sumptuous looking lady (in my own words not Ken’s. Please) that has been trying all she could to get the attention of Ken to no avail. He was devoted to his wife and gave Jolomi no second thought whatsoever.

She entered his office in her usual jovial, cleavage showing, seductive oozing mischievous self.

She sat down, Ken told her the bad news and gave her the letter.

Then she burst into tears.

Ken being a human being and a gentleman proceeded to hug her telling her everything is going to be fine when his wife entered the office.


Morale of the Story:
Manner of approach is the difference between a venomous marriage and a peaceful one. It’s okay to be hurt, it’s okay to be offended by a spouse but your reaction matters greatly.

As the story shows, Option 1 was immediate, explosive and detremental. Whereas Option 2 was calculated, calm and very peaceful.

It gave room for communication and when there is communication there is understanding and with understanding comes peace and harmony.

Next time you want to explode, relax and ask yourself “What would Jesus do?”
Yes, Jesus would be calm. So be calm.


You learn, just as you learn good manners, how to approach things with a certain amount of diplomacy. – Robert MacNeil

Why A Jobless Man Should Not Marry


MOVIE TITLE: The Life of a man

Scene 1:
After God had finished creating the Heavens and the Earth, day and night, flowers and animals in all its beauty in six full days, He decided to take a break on the seventh day.
And then “the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul”.
#End of Scene 1
Scene Credit: Genesis 1, Genesis 2:7

Scene 2:
God couldn’t let man stay idle so after God created Adam, He gave him a job to do. “The LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden, to dress it, and to keep it”.
#End of Scene 2
Scene Credit: Genesis 2:15

Scene 3:
After God created man and have him a job, He called a meeting with thr Heavenly beings and said “It is not good that the man should be alone: I will make him a help meet for him. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept; and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place.  And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, he made woman, and brought her to the man”.
#End of Scene 3
Scene Credit: Genesis 2:18,21,22

Scene 4:
So God created man, gave him a job and then gave him a woman. He didn’t force the woman on him. Adam might have woken up and rejected the woman God had given him but he woke up and with love in his heart and a broad smile on his face said “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of man”.
#End of Scene 4
Scene credit: Genesis 2:23

Scene 5 (Final Scene):
After man was created, given a job, given a woman, acknowledged his woman then they became one flesh (marriage). “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
End of Scene 5
Scene Credit: Genesis 2:24

God created man, gave him a job, gave him a woman, he fell in love with the woman and they lived happily ever after. And we are aware that our God is a God of order.
It shows that:
God doesn’t expect any man to marry before finding his purpose on Earth.
God doesn’t expect a jobless man to get married.
God expects a man to get a job before he gets a woman to marry.

So for a full fledged man to court a woman, tell her about his intentions for marriage and not be able to take care of her and the family is an anomaly as far as God is concerned.
Love is no excuse for a man to venture into marriage without a job.

As Pastor EA Adeboye deftly put it “Don’t marry a man who has no job. Before God gave Adam Eve, he gave him a job. He said, ‘This is the garden, keep it.’ So when anybody comes to you and says, ‘Sister, thus saith the Lord, you are going to be the star in my firmament,’ ask him — ‘What is your job?’
“If he tells you he is a contractor, ask him to show you evidence of all the contracts he has done because the contract he is talking about is you. He wants to live off you.”
“Don’t be a fool. If he hasn’t got a steady income, don’t marry him. A man is to provide for the house and not the other way round. If he has no income, he should not marry. Those who do not work should not eat. And if they can’t eat, they can’t even marry.”

So as God planned it and as the man of God put it.
Ladies, don’t take a jobless mam proposing marriage serious. He is going against God’s master plan.
Guys, don’t take a woman to the altar if you are not yet gainfully employed. You are going against God’s master plan.


Plot Credit:

Pastor Adeboye, Women and Cooking


A video of Africa’s most respected and most reverenced preacher, Pastor EA Adeboye where he urged his male church members not to marry a lazy lady who can’t pray and cook surfaced online. Watch video HERE.

Reactions to his advice caused somewhat of a firestorm on the online stratosphere. Some called the man of God out for his advice, a few feminists bashed him for his “misogynistic” (women hating) comments. One even called him ignorant. All because he said a man should not marry a woman that can’t cook?

Wait a minute. Hollup (in Francis Odega’s voice)

When did it get so bad that a man of God has to call out ladies that can’t cook?

When did it get so bad that women get angry when the issue of cooking for their husbands (future husbands) comes up?

When did it get so bad that ladies get so uncomfortable in the kitchen?

Simple answer: Jet Age Syndrome.

This jet age is when a lady born from a heterosexual union of a man and a woman decides she wants to have a homosexual union instead.
“So how would you have children”, she is asked.
“I will adopt or get sperm from a donor” is her reply.

This jet age is when a lady who grew up with a mother that cooks for her father and her siblings would decide she doesn’t want to cook for her future husband because she has to work for her own money.
“So who would cook for your husband and the kids”, she is asked.
“A cook or nanny of course”, she replies.

This jet age is where a man born with a penis, beards, a hairy chest and testosterone running through his system decides he wants to become a woman. He gets his penis chopped off, gets breast implants and literally becomes a woman.
“God made you a man, why are you turning into a woman?”, he is asked.
“It is my body and I can do whatever I want with it”, is his bullish reply.

This jet age is when a young girl spends more time with her makeup in front of a mirror in an attempt to enhance her looks than she spends in the kitchen or helping her folks around the house.

This jet age is when a young man spends more time looking for illegal ways to make quick cash and then scouts social media sweet talking girls into premarital sex.

This jet age is when youths spend more time chatting away their destinies on social media than they spend bettering themselves.

I could go on and on but for the sake of space, let me stop here.

The preacher just opened a can of worms that should have been opened a long time ago.

What are we turning into?

A people with no moral and sense of responsibility?

Women hide behind the misguided cloak of feminism for everything.


Q: Why can’t you cook?
A: Why must only women know how to cook? Why can’t men learn how to cook?

Q: Why can’t you clean the house?
A: Why must women be the only ones cleaning and washing. Why can’t men clean and wash?

Q: Why don’t you stay at home and take care of the kids?
A: Men should take of the kids too. It shouldn’t just be a woman’s responsibility.

Q: Are you aware that a woman should be submissive to her husband?
A: I am not a slave to no man. If I am submissive, he should do likewise.

I have dated modern generation women for almost a decade now and I must admit that only a handful cook better than me. Most find cooking cumbersome while others don’t even bother learning how to cook.

Should cooking be a man’s priority in choosing a wife?

Of course not. High in the chain of desirable attributes to look for in a woman should be amongst others; hardworking, caring, submissive and a smart woman.

A smart woman wouldn’t wait for a man of God to show her how to take care of her man.

Would I marry a woman that can’t cook?

Even love isn’t that blind.